There is little information out there for those that are divorcing a high conflict individual. High conflict individuals is an umbrella term that is used for narcissistic types who make reconciliation and coparenting an extremely difficult process. These rules created from experience with clients that have been stuck in these battles. They were developed over time through trial and error. Attorneys are virtually useless and can offer almost nothing in the context of narcissistic personality disorder. These rules will help give you a foundation for bringing order and boundaries. I offer expert advice from a mental health perspective. My rules are not only intended to help you reduce chaos but in the long run help bring the most beneficial outcomes for children involved.